She had no idea that the tone of her voice could give her away. When I told her, she said it made her feel “a little crazy.”
As we talked this morning, I noticed something different. Nothing dramatic but evident. I realized I was talking to the woman. So I asked her, “are you feeling little right now?” Her response was “no, not really.” I knew it. I told her I knew it. I told her that her tone was different. Her giggle wasn’t quite the same. I assured her this was not a bad thing. That we all have different modes and moods, and are multi dimensional.
That’s when she said she felt “a little crazy.” Though I suspect vulnerable was the more appropriate word. She was letting me peek through a crack in one of those walls. I let her know those feelings we’re perfectly okay. They were “little” feelings.
So I decided to ask if she could ever recognize when I wasn’t in my daddy mode and might be feeling a bit insecure. She said she could. And we talked some more. We talked about spirituality and feelings. The Big Bang Theory. Bumps in the road. You guys……
A bit later I recognized another subtle change had taken place . “You’re feeling little right now aren’t you?” That all telling giggle and a sweet “yes Sir” confirmed my sense. It was wonderful. So adorable! And I don’t think she feels as crazy anymore. Hopefully a bit more safe.
She’s a woman and she’s a little. Both have to be cared for and nurtured equally.
We hung up and she sounded happy. I had told her Friday that I wanted this to be a special weekend for her. A weekend of self-care. A weekend for her to relax and play. We had to work on a few corrections this weekend but overall it’s been a good one for her. And me.
I like that she’s happy. She deserves it.
Cinn said:
It’s so hard to describe to others, especially in a way where I don’t feel they look at me like I have some screws loose. 🙂
But the good thing is, both sides are comfortable with you.
xx
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Hunter said:
That is a very good thing.
That damn shame can eat at us all. Baby steps, db.
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Ash and Alder said:
I’m fascinated – are you saying that the vulnerability is associated with the woman rather than the little? I can see why you say it’s hard to explain; I’m having difficulty even phrasing the question.
Or is it that the woman takes over when you feel too vulnerable to be little?
Ash
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Hunter said:
She asked me to take a stab at this one …..
The woman and the little are one and can never separate from each other. The little does more of the “feeling” and has likely been protected by the woman for many years, placing herself in that protective yet isolating shell. But then the woman becomes comfortable enough with herself to begin to allow her Dom (or anyone she trusts) to let the little know it’s okay to come out. To be vulnerable. It’s a process. There’s no time frame, requirements or “goals” other than to become more emotionally free.
We all long for intimacy. But past experiences can be a devious block. It takes time, patience and trust. Welcome to the human condition, perhaps.
Thoughts?
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Annie B said:
“She’s a woman and she’s a little. Both have to be cared for and nurtured equally.”
So absolutely critical to being a whole being capable of pouring out the loving service we are desperate to provide.
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Cinn said:
Reblogged this on CinnamonAndSparkles and commented:
Glimpses of a little…… Reblogging for the other littles and/or their Mommies and Daddies
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Draco Dimanovic said:
Reblogged this on Draco's Journal and commented:
Very nice x
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Hunter said:
Thank you
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wildwestangel said:
Made me smile, Sir. We have been very giggly together and MY Daddy coined us the Glitter Girls that evening. I know exactly what you are talking about. 🙂 I miss my girl.
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Hunter said:
She has told me what a great time you guys had. How I would love to have been a fly on the wall that weekend!
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Kayla Lords said:
My babygirl side smiled a big smile reading this. It does make you feel a little crazy to go back and forth – especially in the beginning of something new. I’m glad that you see that in her and appreciate it about her.
Yay for this weekend – for both of you!
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Hunter said:
Thank you Kayla. And thanks for being so supportive and helpful to her.
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Kayla Lords said:
She’s a beautiful person and deserves support and love. I’m glad she’s finding it in so many places. 🙂
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carina said:
Reblogged this on My Journey as a Submissive and commented:
Exactly like this.
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Dawn D said:
I was away for a while and didn’t get to comment much, though I read the posts Cinn reblogged. Not that it makes much of a difference, but I want to say this: I like you 🙂
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Hunter said:
Well, may day has officially been made. I’m serious. Thank you so much for that. I like you too.
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Dawn D said:
I don’t know if it’s tiredness or what, but I didn’t get the forst part of your message. And I’d really like to not go to bed dumb. Would you mind explaining? 🙂
And thank you too 🙂
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Hunter said:
I meant to say “my” day has been made. Just thanking you for the post. I hope that helps explain.
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roosterfeather5 said:
Reblogged this on littlegirl With Feathers and commented:
This is wonderful. This is an insight every little and every Mommy/Daddy needs to know!
Such an intimate bond will be better nurtured if we’re all keen to the other’s modes.
Thank you for sharing!
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